Staying with not-knowing

12/01/2026

Not knowing can feel uncomfortable — even threatening.
But it's also where something new becomes possible.

We're rarely taught how to stay with uncertainty. The impulse is to resolve it quickly, fill the gap, or hand the problem to someone else.

Yet many meaningful decisions only emerge when we allow ourselves to stay with the questions a little longer. When we don't rush to closure, we often discover that the answer was already forming.

Not-knowing isn't a failure.
It's often part of an honest transition.